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Sunday, March 16, 2025
Russia: No Peace Talks if Duterte is Not Released
Saturday, March 15, 2025
Teaching Empathy to Your Children and Grand Children
- Family Dynamics and Parenting Styles:A child's environment, particularly their family, can significantly impact their development of empathy.
- Lack of Empathy Modeling: If parents or caregivers consistently fail to demonstrate empathy or acknowledge the feelings of others, children may learn to do the same.
- Authoritarian Parenting: Rigid and controlling parenting styles can stifle a child's emotional expression and ability to understand and connect with others.
- Limited Social Interactions:Children who lack opportunities for social interaction may struggle to develop the skills needed to understand and respond to the emotions of others.
- Excessive Screen Time:Spending excessive amounts of time watching television or playing video games can limit opportunities for real-life social interactions and emotional development.
- Mental Health Conditions:Certain mental health conditions, such as narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) or antisocial personality disorder, can be associated with a lack of empathy.
- Trauma:Past trauma can also negatively impact a child's ability to empathize, as they may struggle to regulate their emotions and connect with others.
- Executive Functioning Impairments:Conditions like ADHD can involve difficulties with executive functions, such as impulse control and emotional regulation, which can affect the ability to recognize and respond appropriately to others' emotions.In another article I read the other day ( March 12-18, 2025 issue of The Epoch Times), it shows datathat parents pass down traits that help protect future generations from loneliness.Here's a summary of the article:"Precious family heirlooms and physical traits are not the only things passed down from generationto generation. A 25-year study published in 2024 followed families across three generations andfound that empathy is a trait that endures over time and across relationships. The "empathy blueprints"we received from our parents are paid forward, shaping how we connect with our friends and later,how we nurture our children.This quarter-century study published in Child Development, demonstrated that mother's empathytoward their 13-year olds predicted the teen's empathy toward their closed friends in adolescence- ages 13 to 19. These teens went on to become empathic parents, which predicted their ownchildren empathy.While previous research has linked parents' and children's empathy at specific moments in time,this study was the first to show that emphatic parenting creates a ripple effect, influencing at leastthree generations down to grand children." For details read:Meanwhile, my quotes of the Day!HOW TO RESPECT YOURSELF1. Stop chasing those who aren’t interested in you.2. Avoid begging for attention or validation.3. Speak less and let your words carry weight.4. Address disrespect promptly and assertively.6. Limit visits to those who don’t value your presence.7. Prioritize self-investment and your happiness.8. Avoid engaging in gossip or unnecessary negativity.9. Think carefully before you speak—your words define your value.10. Always present yourself well; dress to reflect your worth.11. Focus on your goals and stay productive.12. Value and protect your time.13. Leave any relationship where you’re not respected or valued.14. Spend on yourself—it teaches others to respect your worth.15. Be unavailable sometimes; it creates value.16. Give more than you take.17. Don’t go where you’re not invited, and when you are, don’t overstay your welcome.18. Treat people as they deserve to be treated.19. Except for owed money, two missed calls are enough; let them return the effort if they care.20. Strive for excellence in all you do.Lastly, my flower of the Day! ( See the Bee)THD News: Cydney Carbah ( Activities) last day here at THD will be this next Wednesday. She has found a job with better opportunities for her future ( benefits) etc...We will miss you Cydney. Another lesson I again learned. Do not get bonded or become friends with THD employees since they will disappear either voluntarily or involuntary in a very, very short time. Rapid Employee turnover here in THD is the facts of Life. I am getting used to it. Good Luck, Cydney in your new job. I will miss you personally.
Friday, March 14, 2025
Baker with His Oscar Wins with Anora and the Pinoy Movie- Macho Dancer
He co-founded the organization Concerned Artists of the Philippines (CAP), dedicated to helping artists address issues confronting the country, and the Free the Artist Movement. He was a member of the Coalition for the Restoration of Democracy.
1."Here’s another whirlwind of a motion picture from director Sean Baker (Tangerine, The Florida Project), who continues to find ways to build engaging features that examine underrepresented and marginalized subcultures in America. Anora works wonderfully as a screwball romantic comedy and a very human drama detailing the separation of classes and how their odd mixing can play out under extreme circumstances. Aided by a fierce lead performance from Mikey Madison, for a film clocking in at just under two hours and twenty minutes, there’s a lot to enjoy thanks to how this movie sets its sights on establishing familiar setups and completely flipping the table, to end up with something edgier, grander, and effectively emotional.
Madison stars as Ani, a Russian-American exotic dancer from Brooklyn, New York. While she doesn’t like to reference her Russian heritage all that much, her understanding of the language leads to her boss fixing her up with Russian clients. She’s then introduced to Vanya (Mark Eydelshteyn), the son of a wealthy Russian oligarch. Based on all their lustful activities, the two decide they’re in love, and within a couple of weeks, they fly to Las Vegas and elope. Once this news makes its way back to Vanya’s parents, everything suddenly spirals out of control, leading to a very eventful 24-hour period full of shouting, arguments, fights, scavenger hunts, and other chaotic activities".

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